How to Give Him a Little Ego Boost

Is your guy feeling a little blue about how he looks?  We don’t really think about a man’s self -esteem because the media really only shows these hugely muscular men with their bulging arm wrapped around some gorgeous, slender woman.   But in reality, men have surprisingly delicate egos, and can actually feel bad about themselves if things are not exactly going their way.  How do you help to make him feel better about himself to give him a little boost?  Here are a few tips.

Tip #1

GIVE HIM A COMPLIMENT

Everyone feels better when their good qualities are noticed.  There is a lot of pressure nowadays to be a person who is perfect, skinny, happy, successful, young, beautiful….I could go on and on.   The media is not always kind to the ‘real’ people, flashing airbrushed images in front of our faces, and acting like it’s the norm.  Guys feel it too.  If your man is going through a slump, as we all do from time to time, let him know that you notice his good qualities.  “Wow, that shirt looks nice on you!”  “You’re so handsome.”  “I just love your smile.”   A few kind words never hurt.

Tip #2

LET HIM KNOW YOU APPRECIATE HIM

A lot of men show how they feel, rather than telling you.  When you let him know that you appreciate what he does for you, it makes him feel good about what he did, and gives him the confidence to do more.  Did he bring you some flowers?  Did he clean up the dishes?  Did he walk the dog?  Compliment him for it.  Yeah, it may be ‘his job anyway’, but everyone feels good about some positive words.

Tip #3

MAKE HIM FEEL SEXY

Some women get it all wrong when it comes to this.  I know a guy whose girlfriend brought him flowers.  Although a sweet gesture, guys don’t want flowers.  Guys want your body.  Dress up in  sexy lingerie, and give him what he wants.  Make it doubly nice for him and surprise him.  Just attack him with passion.  Pull his pants down, and start it out with a blow job.  That will make him feel good.  Let him give the flowers.