The Sex Compromise

Are you and your partner struggling with what I call the ‘Sex Schedule’?  You want it on Wednesday, but he’s tired from work.  Or he wants it as you’re running out the door for girls’ night.   Why can’t life be simple enough to just get down and dirty when our bodies say it’s time?  Well, we don’t always run on the same sex schedule, so that can make it a little more complicated.  Here are some tips to rev him up when you’re feeling like some sexy time, and you’re not sure if he’s going to be on your clock. 

TIP #1

GIVE HIM THE MESSAGE:

Put the idea in his head with just a sexy note in the morning before work.  He’ll start to think about it.  And then later, send him a juicy text to let him know that he’s all you can think about.  That will put the idea back in his head, letting his mind take a break from the stresses at work.  When it’s about time for him to come home, send him a sexy picture.  By the time he arrives home, he’ll think it’s his idea, making it even more desirable for him. 

TIP #2

SURPRISE!!!!

Let him walk through the door – give him 5 or 10 minutes to breathe – then SURPRISE!!  Walk out with a sexy outfit on and play a game to seduce him.  Role play or just go to work on his body.  Men are visual, and what man can resist you looking super HOT!

TIP #3

BOOK IT

Some couples need time away from their home to get intimacy back again.  If you’re stuck in obligation while you’re at home, then put aside the in-laws or other responsibilities for a night or two, get a pet sitter, and get busy in a hotel.  Getting away is a great way to recharge and feel like you’re on an adventure.  This gets the juices flowing, and allows you to forget all the crap that is blocking your love life.  Plus, doing it in a strange place can make it extra sexy!