To Get What You Want, You Gotta Give Her What SHE Wants

Do you remember that song that started out, “What have you done for me lately?”.  This describes perfectly how to get what you want.  It’s so simple.  If you want something, you have to give something.  But what do women want?  To most men, this is a mystery.  But in reality, it’s so simple. 

Women want romance.  When our man is romantic, it makes us feel special.  It makes us feel like we are the only one in the world.  Many men don’t really know how to be romantic.  They think that squeezing their lady’s tits is romantic.  They will say, “I touch you all the time.”  I hate to break it to you, but slapping her in the ass and making a comment on how much you like it is NOT romance.  Let me give you some ideas, and hopefully, you will give her what she wants, and then you can get what YOU want.  Some of these are cliché, but they still work.

Ideas for romance:

1.      Candlelight dinner for two:  Make her dinner, set the table with candles and put on soft music.  If you can’t cook, then go get dinner and set up the table with the aforementioned items.  It’s the gesture that can score you

big points.  Compliment her during dinner.  Ask her questions about herself and make it known to her how attracted you are to her.  You might get some dessert for your efforts.

2.     Surprise her with love notes around the house:  Spill your guts in love letters that she can find as she does her routine around the house.  Put one in her lunch.  Put one on her mirror, in her car, on her pillow – anywhere that will make her so surprised.  This small, but thoughtful gesture will make her so juicy for you!

3.     Draw her a bath:  Imagine when she comes through the door from work and you draw her bath (bubbles optional), set up some music and candles, and you take the kids for an hour.  You let her know that you notice how hard she works and you want to give her a break to relax.  Who knows…she might invite you into the tub.

4.     Romantic weekend getaway:  Surprise her with a romantic weekend getaway.  This doesn’t have to be an extravagant vacation, but just get away and have some fun adventures together.  It will let her know that spending time together with her is very important to you.  If you don’t have a weekend, just spend a night away.  Getting out of a routine and going somewhere new and different mixes it up and makes it exciting.

5.     Put together a picnic:  There are so many fun places to have a picnic, depending on where you live.  You can picnic in a park, on the beach, on a rooftop, in a back yard, or even tailgate your picnic.  Making a creative basket can be yummy, funny and even sexy.  Feed her some sexy treats.  Pour her some champagne.  The options are unlimited.  But you must have fun with it.  You can even pack some cute, sexy games to get some playtime in. 

6.     Ask for a fashion show:  Buy her some sexy lingerie and ask her to model it for you.  This will knock her off her feet.  It will make her feel sexy and wanted, and it will also make her irresistible to you!  When she’s modeling it for you, encourage her to spin and bend over for you.  Tell her how beautiful she is, and your investment will get a ‘wow’ return. 

I want to make a note that doing ‘chores’ for her is nice, but it doesn’t put you in the romance zone.  She will appreciate it, but you want her to think of you sexually, not as a maid or a fill-in maid.  If you want to get what you want, keep it to romantic gestures.